"Full moon November 25 in Gemini" by Patty Shaw.

It will be easy to find because the Gemini moon will supercharge your powers of observation. I’ll give you a for instance. On my first list I put down; took business classes. On my second list, I saw that I wrote down, I don’t really understand finances. My third list showed that I abdicate financial planning to others and my fourth list revealed that I still haven’t mastered a P&L or Balance Sheet. My negative spiritual habit is that I believe I am stupid when it comes to the financial part of running my business. This last statement is my target and it’s going down.

Now it’s your turn and you will need a few supplies. Scraps of paper, matches, ashtray and a candle. I suggest a Needed Changes Blessed Herbal Candle, but you go with what appeals to you. When you find your destructive spiritual habit, write it down on a piece of paper. Look it square in its beady little eyes and tell it it’s time to go. “You’ve been loyal, but I’ve changed.” You may say more, it’s your ritual. On another piece of paper write your updated spiritual habit. Mine will be; “I understand numbers and it's fun. They help me run my business better and help me feel more confident with my decisions.”

Light your candle saying the blessing and adding in that you are letting go of old thoughts, beliefs, habits, and patterns you’ve indulged in and have let others put upon you. Now we play with fire. Light the paper with your old destructive spiritual habit written on it. Carefully place it in the ashtray and let it burn out. Be sure to affirm that you are open to this change and are grateful for this opportunity to learn and grow. Feel your subconscious mind let go of the old thoughts as they go up in smoke with the little piece of paper. When the paper has turn to ashes, go and bury it in the garden. Let it become plant food.

Last step, read your new spiritual habit and claim it as your new mindset. Then put it on your bathroom mirror so you can see it at the start of every day. Read it aloud and make sure you put feeling into it. Be happy about this new spiritual habit. Make friends with it and celebrate it.